Dating and playing game

02-Dec-2016 02:27 by 10 Comments

Dating and playing game

In fact, the tough love coaching I give my clients is aimed at protecting women from falling victim to such games. I’m sure female readers could cite hundreds of examples.

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Whatever the prize is, using mind games to acquire it never ends well.

In the context of dating games, your love interest is your adversary, and you have to find a way to outmaneuver them in the arena of love.

To keep your love interest interested, follow these guidelines.

By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.

And do not cancel any of these fun, meaningful activities just because he calls and wants to see you.

When a guy has you and gets to keep you without really putting in much effort, your stock inevitably goes down in his mind.

At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!

My last blog on top dating mistakes women make caused an uproar among male readers who complained my advice encouraged women to “play games.” Not a huge surprise, since the most common dating blunders are a boon to lazy men looking for casual flings.

But a bit ironic, given that MEN themselves are masters of game playing in relationships.

Unfortunately, those of us who don’t see the benefits that mind games offer tend to use it for devious purposes – specifically, relationships.

No one is exempt from this transgression because both men and women are guilty of playing mind games.

This is where he pretends to care about you more than he actually does at the beginning in order to get you into bed.